Life in lock-down (2020 pandemic)
Who
would have thought what our lives would be if we were to live in cages. Being
isolated from the rest of the society and almost being marooned in a deserted
island gave me a lot of time to reflect on all those things which I had taken
for granted. As an young adult i always enjoyed strolling around in the park,
often meeting with my school friends on the weekends and grabbing a snack from
the nearby french cafe while reading my favorite book laying aimlessly on that
not so comfortable park bench and gentle breeze used to brush my face making a
mess of my salt and pepper hair. Here in this same old-school park bench, was
where I met the love of my life and in this very spot where I had asked her
hand for marriage. Now in recent days, considering the horrors of world wide
global pandemic COVID 19, it only seems like a dream of the past, if one is
thinking of venturing into the outdoors.
Different
people bears different mechanisms for coping with disastrous scenarios, for
example my mother these days, who happens to be a school teacher, had always
been invariably busy with her students, she now has taken the utterly important
and daunting task of disinfecting all the household articles, especially the
groceries; every time they enter our lavish paternal mansion. The same is
certainly not true for my father, being the scholarly person he is, most of the
time he indulges himself with all his vintage philosophical books most of which
hailing from the Victorian timeline, needless to say attaining those books into
my father's mammoth collection created quite the vacuum in his not so
philosophical bank account. My wife who happens to be a dentist, having an well
established practice with a fat yearly turnover, considering the virulence of
the virus, now has stopped her lucrative dental practice; and with all the much
excess time in her hands now I feel she is aiming to be the next Instagram
sensation with all her makeover tutorial and healthy eating habits. For the
sake of my wife and to keep her nerves calm, also to keep her engaged with her
acts, most of the time i play the role of the silent video-grapher ''autobot''
transforming into a living tripod and the submissive husband. I do not mind all
the changes, as long as there exists peace in the family.
The
COVID days may be different from our usual days, yes the times are hard but in
spite of all the harshness and calamities and fear of losing our loved ones,
what I enjoy the most is the time which I get to spend with my family. Perhaps
we have been locked down forcefully against our free-will but knowingly or
unknowingly we all have grown more close to one another and maybe this is the
story of every home. People fear death and they want to live long but I have
come to realize it is not the quantity rather it is the quality of life which
actually matters.
Dr Saad Andalib
MBBS,MS(THESIS)
Senior surgical resident
Dept' of Pediatric & Neonatal surgery
Mymensingh Medical College Hospital,
Bangladesh.
Comments
Post a Comment